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From Broken Trust to Breakthrough: Journeying Beyond Betrayal pain vs suffering positive growth resilience

 

Maybe you've experienced one of these scenarios:

  • A close friend you've known for years tells a secret you'd confided in them.
  • Your spouse has been having an affair with a client.
  • Your coworker, who you trusted, takes credit for your hard work.

You feel as if a rug has been pulled...

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Escaping Reality: Destructive Behavior Isn't The Answer To Emptiness adversity choices decision making pain vs suffering positive growth

Escaping Reality

Escaping reality is a quick and easy way of avoiding a problem or making difficult decisions that one doesn't want to deal with. 

Escapism can also be a dependency on something that helps to avoid one's pain and brings temporary pleasure. When the pleasure wears off, the...

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How To Walk Away From Untrustworthy People And Heal From Betrayal boundaries critical thinking pain vs suffering positive growth resilience

Why Trust Is Important?

Trust is central to all types of relationships. It enables one to believe another person's actions. In other words, they say what they mean and mean what they say. 

Trust occurs when you have confidence and security in your romantic partner, family member or work...

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Pain vs Suffering: One Enables Growth During Hardship (Part 2) adversity choices divorce faith pain vs suffering positive growth

My Christian Faith

Over the years, my Christian faith has grown stronger with each hardship I endured. I can't imagine going through my darkest times without the Holy Spirit interceding on my behalf when I was unable to turn my groans into words of prayer. I remember during one hardship in 2000,...

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Pain vs Suffering: One Enables Growth During Hardship (Part 1) adversity choices divorce pain vs suffering positive growth

An Unexpected Divorce

When I was going through my divorce last fall, I had a difficult time accepting the fact that my marriage of 27 years was over. My ex-husband had a couple of years with his girlfriend to get used to the idea but I learned about it one month after my heart transplant surgery....

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